A father who is raising 2 kids, 2 dogs, married 20 years, works a job to pay bills and kill time between vacations, and looking to share stories, advice, thoughts, etc with other Dads out there also trying to simply navigate “Life”.

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THE FATHER BLOG

I want to share my experiences with other working fathers and welcome the thoughts of all dads out there because I certainly don’t have all the answers myself.

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Days of the Week Post Topics

  • Monday – Finance
  • Tuesday – Beer/Liquor/Booze
  • Wednesday – Family
  • Thursday – Travel and Sports
  • Friday – Miscellaneous
  • Prince “not so” charming…

    I have said before that I don’t really watch the news anymore. It makes me a happier person since most of the stories are all basically horrible anyway and can put your mind in a bad place. However, certain headlines that come across my phone are just too appealing to at least not glace at the story. So you can guess which headline came across yesterday….King Charles III strips Prince Andrew of titles and evicts him from royal residence.

    Here is the part of all this that makes me say “HUH?”. The only reason action was taken (like in most cases) is that the former Prince Andy got caught. If there was still only speculation of wrong doing I’m assuming things would have just continued they way they were. But the posthumous memoir by Virginia Giuffre made sure the royal status quo changed and something had to be done. I won’t applaud the decision because the Royal family has known for years what a complete POS they had in their family and not only did nothing about it, but actually paid out large sums of money to keep people quiet.

    I won’t go into further details since all of this is plastered across the internet but feel free to dig into as many details as you’d like.

    Whether you were born into royalty or not, basic human decency and common sense should still exist. In life, there are undoubtedly more grey areas than there are simple black and white. As we head into the weekend, just remember to think before you act as there are consequences to your actions. Don’t be a Prince “not so” charming….

  • Flexibility is the Key!

    I think I would have made a good travel agent. I truly enjoy planning trips and organizing activities while away. We’ve been fortunate enough to have traveled a decent amount and have seen some pretty interesting places. We probably all have our bucket list places that we want to see as well. For me, I still want to see Italy, the Pyramids of Egypt, and take a Viking River Cruise pretty much anywhere in Europe. Those take a bit more planning but I will eventually accomplish those trips.

    But for the “quick getaway”, here are the things I do that I find helpful.

    #1. Search for locations that your local airport flies DIRECT. If we are doing a short trip, I don’t want to waste time with connections or increase the risk of delays.

    #2. Consider non peak or “off season”. For example, this upcoming trip to St. Thomas is not peak season and the flight and accommodations are a fraction of the cost of what it would be a month from now.

    #3. Consider your activities and what you want to do before booking a hotel or VRBO/Air BNB. If you are already closer to where you will be spending most of your time, you will get more out of it for a short trip. I love VRBOs and have found some amazing deals…off season and last minute deals are way more affordable.

    #4. Rent a car. This added cost is so worth it in my opinion. Having the freedom to move around and see more at your own pace is how you truly immerse yourself in a new location. If you want to book an all inclusive resort, lay on the beach all day, and never experience the people and culture outside of resort walls….go for it. But that isn’t what I like to do.

    #5. Never let the fear of the unknown stop you! Never driven on the opposite side of the road? Language barrier? Who cares! Trust me…you will figure it out and be glad you did.

    So start searching for the next getaway. It’s always nice to have something to look forward to!

  • Beer Tax?

    We (and specifically myself) are not going to stop buying and consuming beer. But did you know each state has it’s own excise tax on alcohol? I’m not talking about sales tax as that’s a whole different story. And this is specific to beer because wine and spirits are also taxed differently.

    The United States collects an excise tax on fermented malt beverages at the federal level (ranging from $0.11 to $0.58 per gallon based on production, location, and quantity). At the state level, all 50 states and the District of Columbia collect their own beer excise taxes, added on to any other retail sales taxes from state, and sometimes municipal, governments.

    Kudos to our friends in Wyoming who can boast the lowest excise tax ($.06) and our apologies to those in Tennessee who are getting crushed ($1.29) as per 2024.

    Where does your state rank? https://taxfoundation.org/data/all/state/state-beer-taxes-2024/

    State Beer Excise Tax Rates

    (Dollars per Gallon) As of January 1, 2024
    StateTax RateRank
    Alabama (a)$0.538
    Alaska$1.072
    Arizona$0.1636
    Arkansas (b, c)$0.3518
    California$0.2030
    Colorado$0.0846
    Connecticut$0.2427
    Delaware$0.2624
    District of Columbia (b)$0.795
    Florida (d)$0.489
    Georgia (a, d)$0.489
    Hawaii (d)$0.934
    Idaho (d)$0.1538
    Illinois$0.2328
    Indiana$0.1243
    Iowa (d)$0.1932
    Kansas$0.1833
    Kentucky (e)$0.933
    Louisiana (d)$0.4015
    Maine$0.3519
    Maryland (b)$0.607
    Massachusetts$0.1144
    Michigan$0.2029
    Minnesota (d, b)$0.4711
    Mississippi$0.4312
    Missouri$0.0649
    Montana$0.1440
    Nebraska$0.3120
    Nevada$0.1636
    New Hampshire$0.3021
    New Jersey$0.1242
    New Mexico$0.4114
    New York$0.1439
    North Carolina (d)$0.626
    North Dakota (b, d)$0.4017
    Ohio (d)$0.1834
    Oklahoma (d)$0.4015
    Oregon$0.0845
    Pennsylvania$0.0846
    Rhode Island (c)$0.1241
    South Carolina$0.775
    South Dakota$0.2722
    Tennessee (e)$1.291
    Texas (d)$0.1931
    Utah (d)$0.4113
    Vermont$0.2723
    Virginia (d)$0.2626
    Washington (d)$0.2625
    West Virginia$0.1835
    Wisconsin (d)$0.0648
    Wyoming$0.0250