A father who is raising 2 kids, 2 dogs, married 20 years, works a job to pay bills and kill time between vacations, and looking to share stories, advice, thoughts, etc with other Dads out there also trying to simply navigate “Life”.

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THE FATHER BLOG

I want to share my experiences with other working fathers and welcome the thoughts of all dads out there because I certainly don’t have all the answers myself.

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Days of the Week Post Topics

  • Monday – Finance
  • Tuesday – Beer/Liquor/Booze
  • Wednesday – Family
  • Thursday – Travel and Sports
  • Friday – Miscellaneous
  • What’s on Google Trends today?

    So many things going on in the world today. War in Iran, stock market still plummeting, TSA issues at the airports, etc. But this morning I took a quick look at North America to see what was trending and the results were only a little surprising.

    People, I believe, get burned out and fatigued on bad news and most don’t spend their days searching out the negatives. So when I took a look at what is trending the past 24 hours in the USA, Canada, and Mexico….it was overwhelmingly the search for sports. In the USA, as expected with opening day in the MLB, most of the searches were for baseball games. Canada had some baseball and hockey searches of course. Mexico was soccer or futbol.

    The bad news will always be there. I’m sure there will be something new today and over the weekend as well. But do your best to stay positive! Grab a beer this weekend, put on your favorite team, and enjoy a game! It’s a lot less stressful than putting on the news! See ya Monday.

  • Is there truth to move it or lose it?

    I missed yesterday’s “Family” post so I’m going to do a little combo today for family and travel. So where does “move it or lose it” come into play? Let me tell you…

    Lately, I have been seeing the decline of some of the older people in my life and even a death within the last couple weeks. I’m not talking about people in their late 80s or early 90s…I mean anyone would sign up for that longevity. I’m talking about people still in their 70s. On the other hand, I see commercials on TV with 100 year old people out golfing at the retirement community. So what’s the catch?

    It’s definitely attributed in part to the “move it or lose it” mentality. Don’t get me wrong….it helps to eat right, drink in moderation, and not smoke/do drugs as you progress through life. But getting your ass outta bed in the morning with a purpose and getting yourself moving/exercising it HUGE!

    I’m lucky. My parents are still in very good shape for their mid/late 70s. They live in a nice retirement community where they literally have activities they participate in daily. Sometimes multiple activities per day in addition to the friends they still meet for weekly breakfast and the occasional dinner (early bird specials probably but whatever keeps them moving).

    This week my parents hopped on a plane and flew to Utah to go hiking at Arches National Park. I’m so happy for them that they can still do these things that make them happy and I believe, keep them young! So hike away and have a blast this week Mom and Dad. Can’t wait to hear the stories and see lots of pictures.

    Yes, “move it or lose it” is true. Regular physical movement is essential to maintain muscle mass, joint mobility, cardiovascular function, and cognitive health. Inactivity accelerates aging, increasing risks for sarcopenia (muscle loss), osteoporosis, and chronic diseases like diabetes. However, lost fitness can be regained, making it more accurately “use it or lose it, until you work at it again”. 

    • Muscle and Bone: Inactivity leads to muscle wasting (sarcopenia) and loss of bone density (osteoporosis).
    • Joint Health: Moving keeps joints lubricated and reduces pain, while inactivity leads to stiffness.
    • Cardiovascular & Metabolic Health: Regular movement prevents metabolic decline, reduces the risk of heart disease, and lowers obesity rates.
    • Cognitive Function: Physical activity boosts brain health, whereas a sedentary lifestyle can lead to lower cognitive ability.
    • Flexibility & Balance: Consistent movement helps prevent falls and improves mobility in daily life.
    • Recovery: While muscles and fitness can be lost in as little as two weeks of inactivity, they can be rebuilt through consistent exercise later.

  • Whiskey review

    This past weekend was our St Patrick’s Day party as I mentioned. I wanted to circle back and let everyone know that we sampled the Green Spot 100th Anniversary 10 year old whiskey. It was fantastic!

    This, in my opinion, was way different than any of the other Green Spot whiskeys…whether we’re talking about the standard bottle or the ones that have been aged in other barrels. It still had the incredible smoothness that I’ve come to love it the Spot Whiskeys…but with way more depth of flavor. Felt more like a Red Spot or Blue Spot where flavor is concerned. Best part is that it wasn’t an expensive bottle even considering I had to have it shipped from overseas.

    If you can find this bottle….I highly recommend you give it a good home! Slainte!