A father who is raising 2 kids, 2 dogs, married 20 years, works a job to pay bills and kill time between vacations, and looking to share stories, advice, thoughts, etc with other Dads out there also trying to simply navigate “Life”.

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THE FATHER BLOG

I want to share my experiences with other working fathers and welcome the thoughts of all dads out there because I certainly don’t have all the answers myself.

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Days of the Week Post Topics

  • Monday – Finance
  • Tuesday – Beer/Liquor/Booze
  • Wednesday – Family
  • Thursday – Travel and Sports
  • Friday – Miscellaneous
  • What is there to do in Nashville, TN?

    Having a business meeting in Nashville, or the “Bachelorette Capital of the World” or “Nashvegas,” probably could have been more interesting, but I’ll say it was uneventful at best.

    The weather wasn’t great, the meeting obviously took place mid week, etc. But I will say downtown Nashville, particularly Honky Tonk Highway, is a pretty lively place and you will never run out of places to slip into for live music. The bands were all good that we heard and don’t think for a second that you will only hear country music there. It definitely dominates the scene but we listened to a great band at Kid Rock’s who played a great 80’s set list while we were there. You can probably find whatever you’re looking for there if you search hard enough.

    I was a little disappointed in myself that I didn’t research the hockey schedule better as the Chicago Blackhawks were in town and my hotel was across the street from the Bridgestone Arena. Had I stayed the extra night, I could have watch the game. In hindsight, the Predators beat the Blackhawks last night so maybe it worked out for the best.

    Drink-wise…you can’t go wrong with the hard stuff there. Bourbon and whiskey galore! The handful of craft beers I had were mostly average (at best). The Homestyle IPA from Bearded Iris brewing was by far the best and luckily was available everywhere…so I basically stuck with that one.

    Would I go back to Nashville for a vacation? I highly doubt it. Nice city but don’t think I could spend more than a night or two there unless you are really into country music. There is the Grand Ole Opry and the Country Music Hall of Fame if that’s what interests you. Maybe I’d fly into Nashville for a night on the way to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park just for a change of pace and a great meal.

  • Is it whiskey or is it bourbon?

    So despite 2 feet of snow that piled on us from Sunday into yesterday, the roads are amazingly clear, the airports are operating again and I must attend my meeting in Nashville. So what am I to do? Drink what the locals do, of course!

    But in Nashville, TN, are the locals drinking bourbon or Tennessee whiskey? I had to do a little research myself as to the distinction. Here is what our AI buddy, ChatGPT came up with for us:

    All Tennessee whiskey can legally be bourbon, but not all bourbon is Tennessee whiskey. The big difference is an extra step and where it’s made.

    Here’s the breakdown 👇


    🥃 Bourbon

    Legal requirements (U.S.):

    • Must be made in the United States
    • Mash bill must be at least 51% corn
    • Aged in new, charred oak barrels
    • Distilled to no more than 160 proof
    • Entered into barrel at no more than 125 proof
    • No additives (except water to proof down)

    Despite the myth, bourbon does not have to be made in Kentucky — it can be made anywhere in the U.S.

    Examples:

    • Maker’s Mark
    • Buffalo Trace
    • Wild Turkey

    🥃 Tennessee Whiskey

    Tennessee whiskey follows all the rules of bourbon, plus one extra requirement:

    ✅ The Lincoln County Process

    Before aging, the whiskey is filtered through sugar maple charcoal.
    This step smooths the spirit and slightly mellows the flavor.

    It must also be made in the state of Tennessee.

    Famous examples:

    • Jack Daniel’s
    • George Dickel

    🔥 Flavor Differences

    • Bourbon → Often sweeter, richer, more caramel & vanilla forward
    • Tennessee whiskey → Usually smoother, slightly lighter, mellowed by charcoal filtering

    That said, flavor overlap is huge — some bourbons drink smoother than some Tennessee whiskeys.


    Simple analogy:

    Think of it like this:

    Tennessee whiskey = bourbon + charcoal filtering + made in Tennessee

  • Time for another Sales Meeting?

    For anyone in any type of sales profession, you are likely getting back from or preparing to head to your big “National Sales Meeting”. These events usually occur once (please) or twice (oh Lord, help me) a year. Zero times would be best but I guess companies have to spend some budget money and celebrate the “top performers” which can often mean people they favor or ones given the “golden” territories.

    Now I could care less either way. Give me my annual raise for a job well done and then leave me alone to perform my duties. I’ve never been interested winning awards and in sharing a tropical vacation with a dozen co-workers and upper level management types. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again….a job is something that pays the bills and kills time between vacations.

    But as a professional, I will keep a smile on, appear to stay engaged, be on time for all meetings, and generally fake it for a few days. It’s called being an adult.

    For anyone reading this that organizes these types of events, try to make it tolerable for the attendees. We have to leave our families for a week to spend time in a destination (and it doesn’t matter where because all we really see is the airport and the hotel meeting rooms) so it’s already not enjoyable at all. Here is a brief synopsis of why we dislike these and it’s pretty spot on:

    Why Sales Meetings Feel “Useless”

    • Focus on the Past, Not Future: Meetings often concentrate on reporting past activities rather than planning for future improvements.
    • Irrelevant Metrics: Discussions frequently revolve around “vanity metrics” or pipeline numbers intended to show busyness rather than drive real performance.
    • Disconnect from Reality: Marketing materials often do not align with the actual, specific pain points and ROI questions that sales reps face in the field, leading to ineffective presentations.
    • “Acting Out” Scenarios: Peer-to-peer role-playing during training can feel cringeworthy, unauthentic, and disconnected from real-world, high-stakes sales situations.
    • Distraction from Selling: These events take reps away from their customers, practice, or family, wasting valuable time that could be spent on high-payoff activities.
    • Meeting Recovery Syndrome: The mental fatigue and downtime caused by excessive, poorly run meetings can take up to 45 minutes to recover from, making long meetings highly unproductive.