A father who is raising 2 kids, 2 dogs, married 20 years, works a job to pay bills and kill time between vacations, and looking to share stories, advice, thoughts, etc with other Dads out there also trying to simply navigate “Life”.

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THE FATHER BLOG

I want to share my experiences with other working fathers and welcome the thoughts of all dads out there because I certainly don’t have all the answers myself.

I welcome you to add comments to my posts

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Days of the Week Post Topics

  • Monday – Finance
  • Tuesday – Beer/Liquor/Booze
  • Wednesday – Family
  • Thursday – Travel and Sports
  • Friday – Miscellaneous
  • Walking together or separately?

    This question is posed regarding the dogs….not your significant other! If you like your significant other, by all means, walk together.

    Things have been a bit busier than normal at home and I’ve had to make the choice to either walk the dogs together or separately. My choice has always been separately for a couple reasons: Deke and I have always walked alone and it’s our bonding time. Deke and Delaney also walk at different paces. The other added benefit is that I also get more exercise out of it. But I figured I would give it a shot since they actually do get along most of the time.

    Interestingly enough, I find when I have walked them together, they each find a happy medium. Deke keeps up a faster pace than normal to adjust for Delaney. Delaney doesn’t stop as often. Because while slower at times, Deke likes to keep moving ahead.

    If possible, I still like to keep them separate but I do like knowing they can manage together when need be.

    Any multiple dog owners out there that prefer it either way?

  • If you could only buy one stock, what would it be?

    First of all, I would NEVER suggest only buying one stock. I only ask this question because I was curious with all the information and AI analysis available to us, which would be the pick. I was wrong on the answer it spit out. So while you would likely never due this, the principles behind the answer still make sense. Give a look:

    If forced to pick just one equity to buy and hold forever, the single best choice is not an individual company, but a broad-market index fund like the Vanguard S&P 500 ETF (VOO).

    Buying a single individual company introduces severe concentration risk. Even dominant giants can face business shifts, management changes, or structural decline over a long time horizon. However, if rules strictly require a single individual ticker rather than a diversified exchange-traded fund (ETF), my primary recommendation is Berkshire Hathaway (NYSE: BRK.B).

    The Core Strategy: Why Berkshire Hathaway Fits Best

    Berkshire Hathaway operates less like a standard corporate stock and more like a self-contained, professionally managed investment fund. It inherently resolves the danger of single-stock ownership by providing built-in diversification across multiple sectors of the economy.

    • Diversified Wholly-Owned Subsidiaries: Berkshire completely owns over 60 operating businesses. This includes indispensable, cash-generating infrastructure like BNSF Railway, Berkshire Hathaway Energy, Geico insurance, and massive manufacturing and retail operations.
    • A Fortified Public Equity Portfolio: Beyond its private holdings, a single share of Berkshire gives you fractional ownership in dozens of major blue-chip public companies, heavily anchored by massive, high-quality, cash-flow-positive businesses like Apple (AAPL) and American Express (AXP).
    • Unrivaled Cash Fortification: Berkshire famously maintains a fortress-like balance sheet with hundreds of billions of dollars in cash and short-term U.S. Treasuries. This massive liquidity serves as a safety net during market downturns and allows management to aggressively buy up distressed assets at a discount when the broader market panics.

    Alternative Single-Stock Approaches

    Depending on your ultimate financial goals and risk tolerance, a different single-stock framework might better fit your thesis.

    Ticker / CategoryInvestment StyleCore JustificationTrigger to Choose This Instead
    Schwab U.S. Dividend Equity ETF (SCHD)Income & Quality GrowthTracks 100 high-quality, cash-generative U.S. companies with consecutive dividend growth histories, balancing dynamic yield with defensive stability.Choose this if your goal is building a reliable, compoundable passive income stream to live off of later.
    Microsoft (MSFT)Mega-Cap TechnologyCombines an incredibly durable enterprise software monopoly with massive cloud infrastructure growth and deeply entrenched AI monetization.Choose this if you have a long runway and want exposure to structural technology tailwinds via a highly profitable business.
    Vanguard Total Stock Market ETF (VTI)Pure Market NeutralityCompletely removes individual company risk by owning more than 3,500 U.S. stocks across large, mid, and small caps.Choose this if you want zero exposure to single-management mistakes and want a set-and-forget foundational asset.

  • “Mistake on the Lake”

    My apologies to anyone who lives in Cleveland. Not for the nickname or the reputation that comes with Cleveland….but actually sorry that you live there!

    I have to return to Cleveland yet again for a work trip. I’ve never seen a more secluded city in my life with maybe the exception of downtown Buffalo in the dead of winter. Don’t get me wrong, they have some decent restaurants downtown and the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Beyond that? The Browns? At least the Guardians are in the MLB playoffs.

    I understand based on proximity and that less people having to fly is the reason for this destination. But for the cost of my round-trip ticket (almost $1000), I’m guessing we could have picked Chicago which has more direct flights and saved everyone some money and been in a great city.

    Bottom line is this for companies: if you are going to have live meetings and force people away from their families, please hold the meeting is a somewhat enjoyable (and preferably warm) location. This would not qualify Cleveland as a location. But apparently, as they say in Cleveland: “At least we’re not Detroit!”